MATCHMAKER'S NOTES · 紅娘手記

Observations from
the matchmaker's chair

Insights on overseas Chinese relationships, identity, and the specific challenges of finding a genuine connection in North America. Written by VEENI's matchmakers.

MATCHMAKER'S INSIGHT

The North America Chinese Professional's Dilemma: Too Successful to Meet Anyone

The same ambition that built your career has, quietly, made it harder to find a partner. Your VEENI matchmaker explains why — and what to do about it.

Sarah Chen · VEENI North America Senior Matchmaker
CROSS-BORDER

Vancouver × Taipei: Who Moves First?

The most common question in cross-border relationships isn't 'do we have chemistry?' It's 'who moves?' VEENI's matchmaker on how to approach this.

Sarah Chen · VEENI North America Senior Matchmaker
CULTURE & IDENTITY

ABC or FOB: Does It Actually Matter?

The divide between American-born Chinese and first-generation immigrants is real — but it's rarely the obstacle people expect it to be. A matchmaker's perspective.

Sarah Chen · VEENI North America Senior Matchmaker
PRACTICAL ADVICE

Your First VEENI Consultation: What to Expect

The first consultation isn't an interview. Bring your real self — including the parts you're not sure about. Here's what actually happens.

Sarah Chen · VEENI North America Senior Matchmaker

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